The relationship meme

I'm doing this because it will make Lee laugh his ass off when he reads it.

What are your middle names?
It's not that I have anything against our middles names but that's more info than we want to put online. I will say neither of us dislike them and they are completely common. Mine more so for the era I was born in, Lee's is just common.

How long have you been together?
More than a year. We don't really have an anniversary and we like it that way. We'll have been living together for a year soon.

How long did you know each other before you began dating?
Hmm we knew of each other longer than we actually knew it other. We worked for the same company but we each worked from home in different locations. I'd say we really knew each other for three or four months before we started dating? I guess?

Who asked whom out?
He did. And he was a stubborn ass about it.

How old are you?
I'll be 30 in May. He's 33.

Whose siblings do you see the most?
His. Well, he only has one. I have many, but mine live about 1200km away and he hasn't met them all yet. (He's met hmm three of them.)

Which situation is hardest on you as a couple?
To date (at least) I think it was moving to Ottawa. Ottawa was home for him. While he "lived" with me in Montreal for a couple of months it wasn't really a full move in, our stuff didn't truly mingle until we moved to Ottawa. Everything here was just the same as it always was for him (well, not everything but you know what I mean) but it's a whole new city in which I don't have any family or many friends. When we moved here I didn't work out of the house. He made a comment one day about how he was going out to do something "because it was what they always did" and it really bugged me. Because little had changed for him but everything was (and still is) foreign for me. It's improving...but still sometimes difficult.

Did you go to the same school?
Nope. Not even close.

Are you from the same home town?
Nope, not even close.

Who is smarter?
We're smarter than each other in different ways I think.  That's probably a good thing because if we were smart in the same ways we're probably argue a lot more. (We're both a wee bit opinionated...and stubborn...and competitive with each other.)

Who is the most sensitive?
I think me. Although he's far more sentimental and marshmallowy.

Where do you eat out most as a couple?
We really don't eat out often. We both like to cook and eat very well at home. When we do it's usually Chinese or Thai food. When we were in Montreal we snagged takeout from Boustan a lot. (Mmm Boustan). If we are going out for a "nice" (re: more expensive meal) we tend to favour French restaurants. Usually when we eat out it's something that we don't generally make at home.

Where is the furthest you have traveled together as a couple?
We travelled there individually since we were coming from opposite directions but we travelled around Europe together. We did Paris, Rome and Venice. Paris was our favourite (even if it did have the stairs from hell everywhere).

Who has the craziest exes?
Neither of us has crazy exes. That's not to say that we're on amicable terms with all of our exes but that I don't think that any of them are crazy. Sure I may refer to one of mine as the Evil Ex (or of late my Exhole) but he's not crazy - he's just an asshole who broke my cat.(You really don't want to know.)

Who has the worst temper?
Without a doubt, me. Seriously. I keep it under lock and key for the most part but it does occasionally burst out. It ain't pretty.

Who does the most cooking?
Me. I enjoy it particularly when I don't have to do the dishes and he does the dishes (yes, all the dishes). He does breakfast most mornings because I'm useless until I've been up for at hour or two. He is a very good cook though, even if he has a hard time admitting it. If we do Indian or Thai food at home chances are he's cooked it. He probably cooks dinner one night a week or so and he did most of the cooking in his last relationship.

Who is the most stubborn?
We're both really stubborn but he's probably the most reasonable in his stubborness, which I guess means I'm the most stubborn. Luckily we tend to be stubborn about different things...

Who hogs the bed most?
Neither of us tends to be bed hogs but I am occasionally if I fall asleep first. It can also depend on what side of the bed the cat is on because we really do try not to kick her or kick her off. I will fully own up to being a blanket hog though. I can't help it. I'm always cold.

Who does the laundry?
Lee. I'm a total slacker.

Who’s better with the computer?
I think Lee. I'm better with social media/online stuff but I think he's overall better with computers. I can't get him into turning our house into a Mac household though...yet.

Who drives when you are together?
Lee. After 10+ years of relying on public transit I have no desire to drive. I have a driver's license and I keep it current but I don't drive. I drove a bit when we were in PEI this summer. It was weird for both of us.